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The Cruise--Details

I didn't include more details in the prior "The Cruise" post for two reasons. 1)  I didn't think anyone would be interested; and 2)  This trip didn't include much of the normal topics:  good beer, good coffee or John-style travel. But there are details, which may be useful to some people contemplating how such a trip is put together. On the first day of the trip, we drove three hours to pick up my mother in Cedar Rapids, Iowa.  At 85, she isn't comfortable driving for long distances and hadn't flown for many years. We then drove 3 1/2 more hours to Chicago, where we checked into the Wyndham, where you can get a room that includes the cost of parking for up to 12 days.   We were up early on the hotel shuttle to O'Hare, where we then boarded the a non-stop American Airlines flight to New Orleans. Here, we checked into a Hampton Inn near the port.  My mother was pretty tired, so Julia and I went out for a Cajun dinner and live music.   Rememberi...

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The third time was not the charm. Justin made it seven days off intubation and into intermediate care for one night before both his oxygen and blood pressure dropped to unsustainable levels.  The ICU doctor told us that it was a crisis situation, and there was no choice but to do a fourth intubation.  

Justin certainly gave it his best shot. After weighing the choices (a high chance of fatal respiratory failure or a tracheostomy and an intimate connection with a ventilator, Justin decided to go ahead with the tracheostomy.  Things will change, but Justin has adjusted to physical changes for his entire life.  

Julia and I are both relieved.  There will certainly be challenges ahead, and Justin isn't out of the woods yet, but this is a path forward.  There will be three to four weeks of recovery after tomorrow's surgery, and he is still dealing with the spinal fractures.  

One day this week at ICU, I got a call on my phone from an unknown number.  It turned out to be the local housing authority.  After four years, Justin has made it to the top of the waiting list for low income, wheelchair accessible housing.  These spots are very difficult to get, and we started the paperwork immediately for Justin.  Everything is on the ground level, walk-in shower, lots of natural light and there is a nice patio outside the living room.  The area seems both safe and quiet.  And it doesn't hurt that the rent is very reasonable and includes his utilities.  

With some good news, Julia and I were ready for a beer at Delta Beer Lab in Madison, Wisconsin.  I had the Scotch Ale on a nitro tap, and Julia had a Hazy IPA.  Mine was served in a beaker.  It was very good.  Since mine was small, I had two. 

 



Comments

MFH said…
Ok, I'll bite. What is the blue signifier on Julia's glass?

UnbeLIEVable bravery by Justin!

John said…
Delta Beer Lab is all about the science of brewing beer. My glass was in a beaker. I think that the blue shape is a yeast culture tube, but it certainly looks like a number of other things in common experience.

Justin is brave and stubborn, which often serves him well. At 23, he didn't want to be hooked up to a ventilator, but he was even more stubborn that he wants to live.

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