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Ten Degrees and Getting Colder

  Cold Sunrise   That's just the name of the song written by Gordon Lightfoot.  It was actually -13 F when I got up this morning (wind chill -24).  Tucson may have pulled back into the lead!  There's a lot of weighing pros and cons of Colorado vs Arizona by the wood stove.  Not much else to report. I did enjoy a few games of pool and a beer with my brother this week.  We don't get together very often, so it's good to try to keep the lines of communication open, especially with my mother celebrating her 86th birthday next month.  He lives in Milwaukee and just started semi-retirement.  Our opposing politics and lifestyles keep things very casual and surface-level.  Not that there's anything wrong with that.   It's important to find common ground.  He and his wife have started going to concerts and recently saw the Steve Miller Band.  Music is one of our common interests.      

Moving Forward

The third time was not the charm. Justin made it seven days off intubation and into intermediate care for one night before both his oxygen and blood pressure dropped to unsustainable levels.  The ICU doctor told us that it was a crisis situation, and there was no choice but to do a fourth intubation.  

Justin certainly gave it his best shot. After weighing the choices (a high chance of fatal respiratory failure or a tracheostomy and an intimate connection with a ventilator, Justin decided to go ahead with the tracheostomy.  Things will change, but Justin has adjusted to physical changes for his entire life.  

Julia and I are both relieved.  There will certainly be challenges ahead, and Justin isn't out of the woods yet, but this is a path forward.  There will be three to four weeks of recovery after tomorrow's surgery, and he is still dealing with the spinal fractures.  

One day this week at ICU, I got a call on my phone from an unknown number.  It turned out to be the local housing authority.  After four years, Justin has made it to the top of the waiting list for low income, wheelchair accessible housing.  These spots are very difficult to get, and we started the paperwork immediately for Justin.  Everything is on the ground level, walk-in shower, lots of natural light and there is a nice patio outside the living room.  The area seems both safe and quiet.  And it doesn't hurt that the rent is very reasonable and includes his utilities.  

With some good news, Julia and I were ready for a beer at Delta Beer Lab in Madison, Wisconsin.  I had the Scotch Ale on a nitro tap, and Julia had a Hazy IPA.  Mine was served in a beaker.  It was very good.  Since mine was small, I had two. 

 



Comments

MFH said…
Ok, I'll bite. What is the blue signifier on Julia's glass?

UnbeLIEVable bravery by Justin!

John said…
Delta Beer Lab is all about the science of brewing beer. My glass was in a beaker. I think that the blue shape is a yeast culture tube, but it certainly looks like a number of other things in common experience.

Justin is brave and stubborn, which often serves him well. At 23, he didn't want to be hooked up to a ventilator, but he was even more stubborn that he wants to live.

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