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Ten Degrees and Getting Colder

  Cold Sunrise   That's just the name of the song written by Gordon Lightfoot.  It was actually -13 F when I got up this morning (wind chill -24).  Tucson may have pulled back into the lead!  There's a lot of weighing pros and cons of Colorado vs Arizona by the wood stove.  Not much else to report. I did enjoy a few games of pool and a beer with my brother this week.  We don't get together very often, so it's good to try to keep the lines of communication open, especially with my mother celebrating her 86th birthday next month.  He lives in Milwaukee and just started semi-retirement.  Our opposing politics and lifestyles keep things very casual and surface-level.  Not that there's anything wrong with that.   It's important to find common ground.  He and his wife have started going to concerts and recently saw the Steve Miller Band.  Music is one of our common interests.      

The Sound of Silence

They say that introverts gain energy from reflection and lose energy in social gatherings.  Yeah, that's me.  I like being around people, but it does suck my energy.  This past week, we had a house full of invited guests, and it was great to see everybody.  


But when everyone was gone, I found myself breathing a little easier.  One of the things that I really like about our house is the quiet.  We are a long ways from the road and any neighbors.  In the winter, the silence is palpable.  

Justin ended up in the hospital yesterday with extreme side back pain.  He told the doctor that he had sprained his oblique muscle.  Nope, the doctor said, pneumonia.  So they set up an IV with antibiotics and opiate pain relievers.  Today, he's already feeling better, but I hope they can figure out what caused the fluid in his lung.  

He had pneumonia a few years ago, but it was associated with a bad cold and fever.  This presentation was much different with just the extreme back pain.  Young men with Duchennes muscular dystrophy have two big worries:  heart failure and lung failure.  Justin's heart is in good shape, given his diagnosis, but his weakened lungs are a concern. We're all hoping for a quick recovery.  

Oh, in extended family situations or with people he knows, Justin is definitely an extrovert.


Comments

MFH said…
What wonderful smiles!

I'll venture to suggest it's the intensity with which we interact, even when "only" observing, that wears us out.

Did Allie bop through?

Fingers crossed for Justin.

John said…
Before knowing that Julia's side of the family would be in full attendance, Allie booked a flight to Puerto Vallarta with her roommate. She participated by phone/facetime and by sending us lots of sunset and beach photos. Allie will be home for Christmas.

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