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April Update

  It's been awhile since I've posted.  Justin's situation is hard to write about, but I know there are people who want to know what's going on with Justin, my son.  In truth, he is getting sicker and weaker.  For awhile,he made great progress, talking, eating, and getting back into his power wheelchair.   Then he started getting weaker.  His left lung became covered with secretions, and he needed surgery to scrape things out. Then a CT scan revealed more new spine fractures (total of 7).  After that, he just hasn't been able to get over the hump.  This week, Justin decided to discontinue the weaning from the ventilator.  He is on full breath support and can no longer use the voice valve to talk without dangerous oxygen drops.  Pain medication has been significantly increased to help him deal with the pain. It's a tough thing for a 23-year-old to confront one's mortality.  We will continue this journey with Justin to the end to the best of our abilities.  We

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This week, we drove up to Little Chute, Wisconsin to celebrate the birthday of Bob, who is my step father-in-law. When Bob and Berla married many years ago, a few eyebrows raised over the difference in their ages. Bob was significantly older and had a history of heart problems.  He spent freely (and generously).  He liked his evening Manhattans.  As things turned out, Bob outlived Berla (Julia’s mother) and celebrated his 90th birthday with…..a Manhattan party.  A large sign at the party described what goes into a Manhattan. (one third vermouth, one third cherry juice and one third whisky, along with bitters and a maraschino cherry as garnish.

Traditionally, during visits to Bob and Berla, Bob would always make me one of his special Manhattans, served in a large glass.  While very good, the drink was also very strong.  Bob confided to me that one wasn’t enough, two was perfect, and three was too much.  One was usually enough for me, especially the way he made them.

While my blog is not intended to glorify the consumption of alcohol, there’s definitely something remarkable about a guy who lived life fully on his own terms and made it to 90. You will notice that there is a modest-sized Manhattan in Bob’s right hand.



After all of this excitement, I decided to go camping by myself for a few days.  Too much social activity sucks away the energy from us introverts. Unfortunately, there weren’t many camping options without reservations for Saturday night.  I kept at it on Wisconsin’s new camping reservation system and found a campsite available at Mill Bluff State Park near Tomah, Wisconsin.

I’ve never been to this state park, despite passing its sign on Interstate 90/94 many times.  The available site had no hookups, which meant no air conditioning.  While I can brave actual temperatures below zero during Wisconsin’s winters, I am a wimp when it comes to hot, humid weather..  The weather forecast warned of heat index readings of about 100 for Friday night.

This park is deserving of a review, but just a short one.  The State of Wisconsin protected this lovely piece of property with a very cool bluff overlooking the surrounding countryside.  That’s the good news.  The bad news is that the State of Wisconsin then built a busy interstate and railroad tracks all around it.  This is a great park for people who want to get away from it all but miss the constant sounds of trucks, cars and trains.

Then it was hot.  Really hot.  And buggy.  The mosquitoes were eating me alive.  Callie, who is closer to ground level, attracted dozens of flies that were into her ears, eyes and the back of her head.  We got our hiking and climbing done, retreating to the heat of the trailer.  It was so hot that the Class B van from Nevada across from my campsite kept its engine running with the AC going from the time that I arrived until after I went to bed.

On Sunday morning, we got the heck out of the park and headed to the Driftless area of Wisconsin.  The original plan was to boondock at the Kickapoo Reserve, but the predicted storms and heat changed my mind.  We found a little town with an inexpensive campground and electrical hookups for $20/night.  I’m perched on top of a hill, watching the storms sweep across the valley.



This campsite is a winner.


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